So, it happened. The guy was just irresistible and they ended up in bed together. You totally like him, but you are afraid that after what happened, he will just disappear from your life completely. Don’t worry, girl, it’s not the end of the world. Here are some things you can do:

Don’t be desperate or clingy.

Nowadays, sleeping together is not the same as a commitment. It’s something they both wanted to do and ended up doing. Desperately clinging to the boy and frantically trying to have and keep him won’t help. It also won’t help to try to make him “accountable” for something you both did and maybe enjoyed. Just enjoy what you had and let him be the one to chase you.

Don’t chase.

In the same way, harassing him with phone calls, emails, and texts won’t get him interested. If anything, it will probably drive him away. Sure, a “hello” will do, but chasing after it will just make you sit back and enjoy the ride.

Don’t beat yourself up for it.

Never make the mistake of falling into bouts of depression because you slept with someone you like. If deep down you feel regret, then by all means cry. But don’t wallow in self-pity or avoid the world for too long. She picks up the pieces and tries to make him see a strong woman in you.

Keep your composition.

Stand up and live your life. Do the things you normally do. Work, achieve and have confidence in yourself. Go out and have fun. Pamper yourself. Once he sees that you are not affected by what happened, he will surely be intrigued.

Stay beautiful.

Pay special attention to how you look. Getting some exercise not only helps you look good, it also helps you feel good. Smells good at all times. Never let them catch you looking like a bum. Exudes an aura of self-confidence.

Being good company.

Don’t think that just because you like the guy you dated, he is the center of your world. Keep your circle of friends and let it grow. Be nice to be with him, be fun, have fun. Be interested, be interesting.

Slow down next time.

Listed above are things that would make the guy hesitant about turning his back on you. If you have confidence in yourself and bring out the confident woman in you, you will keep her interested. And the next time you two go out again, it might be a good idea to slow down.