Doing a lap dance for your boyfriend/husband is a great way to spice up your relationship. If you’re a little nervous about it and wondering how to do a lap dance he’ll always look forward to, check out these top tips that cover everything from the right clothes to the sexiest moves.

• Music

Pick about two or three sexy songs that you both enjoy. Opt for soft and seductive rhythms. Avoid choosing songs with high voices. A sensual rhythm will pave the way for you to gently dance in front of your partner.

It is best to select music that you feel comfortable with. Preparing more than one song avoids the need to rush. The first will be a warm-up and you can tell your lover the rules, strut your stuff, and lead him into his chair.

• Clothing

Get an outfit that allows you to feel sexy and tempting. You can wear something that is a particular fetish of your partner or you can experiment on your own. The key is to have multiple layers that are easily removable.

• Atmosphere

Create the perfect environment and atmosphere. You can light some aromatic candles and dim the lights or also combine floor lamps with candlelight.

Just be sure to avoid white LED lights or fluorescent lights as they are usually too bright and don’t lead to a romantic atmosphere. There should be no distractions like mobile phones and the space where you will be dancing should be free of obstructions.

• Removals

First of all, one essential thing to remember about throwing a lap dance is to set boundaries. Make sure your partner knows the rules that he can’t touch you during the dance. Also, feel safe and comfortable and enjoy the dance so that your movements flow naturally.

You can start by alternating glances at him and his body, moving your hands sensually across his body. She tries a few hip circles by moving toward him and leaning in close so she can smell her perfume and then backing away from her. She moves her hips in a slow, circular motion and dances to the beat. You can do seductive floor moves, erotic dance routines and sexy poses to heighten the excitement.

These factors on how to give a lap dance are quite important and useful to know. The most important thing is that you both enjoy the moment so don’t get nervous and let yourself enjoy the delight of giving your lover an exclusive lap dance show.