Knowing how to do a lap dance definitely sounds sexy and exciting. But surprisingly, many women are doing it wrong. Sometimes it just takes one wrong move to dampen the mood and make the dance less appealing than it should be. Whether it’s your first time or you want to get better, read the following about the do’s and don’ts of throwing a lap dance.

The 3 things not to do…

1. Do not make excuses.

Once the dance begins, the first 10 seconds are crucial to setting the right mood for the entire dance and attracting your man. So avoid saying things like it’s your first time or that you feel nervous and uncomfortable. These can be instant turn-offs and mood killers. Be confident and communicate a seductive and powerful presence that hooks him.

two. Don’t let him get away with it.

Many women make this mistake too often. One thing about a lap dance is that it should give you temporary power over your man, putting your partner in a submissive position for a while. All this will lead to your maximum enjoyment and pleasure. So make sure you tell him the rules and don’t break them no matter what.

3. Do not make exaggerated hip movements.

Your hips send a tantalizing message to your man that could turn him on or off. So avoid moving your hips like you’re partying. Move sensually. Seduce him with your hips and give him the right message.

Top 3 things to do…

1. Have confidence.

Think, feel and act with confidence. Once you relax and feel confident, the lap dance will come naturally. Always keep in mind that confidence can and WILL make all the difference.

two. Make sensual movements.

Once you feel and think sexy, your movements should express your seductive intentions. Have your man relax in a chair about 6 feet from you and slowly dance towards him. You should be fairly comfortable doing your moves so you can have a better effect on it.

3. Select an outfit that makes you feel attractive and sexy.

Wearing an item of clothing that increases your level of sexiness will help you boost your confidence and perform an exciting lap dance naturally. Ask your man what turns him on.

Learning to do a lap dance shouldn’t be that difficult if you follow these tips on what to do and what not to do.