There are those where you don’t need to think about how to keep your love alive, or even do something about it. Some think that love goes on and on and on, like Eveready Bunny.

But remember, even that pink bunny had to be recharged sometimes. So, then, does your love.

Here, then, are some tips on how to keep your love alive.

The first thing you want to do is add a little excitement from time to time. Pretend it’s your first date, get dressed, shower and act accordingly. Don’t assume that because he loves you he won’t care if you’re scruffy or don’t listen to his stories.

Change old routines a bit, live your schedule. Add some excitement, a romantic little night on the town, a cozy winter night by the fireplace in a cabin in the woods for the weekend.

Set aside one day a week, or at least every other week, to spend a few hours alone, uninterrupted. Be spontaneous.

Put your partner back on the pedestal they were on when you first fell in love. Be realistic, of course, but focus on her unique gifts.

How to keep your love alive is to remind yourself that your partner is special. Buy yourself a journal or notebook. Write down what he or she does each day that makes him or her sweet, loving, or special in your eyes. Also write down how you felt about her partner when you first met. Look how those things still exist.

How to keep your love alive is to let your love into your head and into your heart. If you find yourself criticizing, stop. Even if your complaint is valid, it is often a minor detail that can be overlooked. After all, keeping your love alive is no less.

Understanding your expectations and realizing what can and cannot be met, what is and isn’t realistic is also part of how to keep your love alive. Sometimes we have disappointments in our lives that we blame our partner for, and are actually our own faults, or caused by external forces.

Sometimes we look at what we don’t get to the point that we can’t see what gifts we have. Focusing on the positive things that have come out of our relationship is part of how to keep your love alive.

Another realization that is also important is that our partners, our partners, our spouses are not responsible for our own happiness. We are responsible for our happiness. Putting too much responsibility on our partner to make us happy is not fair and it is a heavy burden for him or her.

Having a happy and fulfilling life outside of your relationship with your partner is also part of how to keep your love alive.

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